Attracting Women – The Basics

From time to time we may bring you articles related to vehicles, and attracting women. No matter how these articles vary, or what is trendy at the time, there are constant variables that will never change.

Women are always attracted to a man that she feels will protect and provide for her. Someone who is a strong leader.

Here are some basic elements to focus on:

Confident Men Get The Women:

This has always held true. Confidence takes out a lot of the stress that can come with a relationship because women don’t want to have to deal with being the decision maker. Also, women don’t want to have to guess how you’re feeling. They prefer someone who is direct and honest with their feelings – someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to express it.

Sense of Humor:

This one is a no-brainer and will come as a surprise to pretty much no-one: women like funny men. Wittiness is a universally-admired trait and women consistently report a good sense of humor as being one of their biggest turn ons.

Appearance and Style:

Good looks are something you’re either born with or you’re not, and besides, they didn’t top the list for any of the women we asked (honestly!). But an attention to detail rated highly as a desirable quality, and this mostly manifested in the form of guys who smell good and take care of their appearance and surroundings. This includes your car. Keep it clean!

When you go on a date, show that you put some effort into what you’re wearing (it says the date is important to you) but you’re not trying too hard (which says you’re desperate or, worse, a player). Slip on jeans and a cool, crisp shirt. A dress shirt and jeans is always a winner. A carefully-chosen cologne will perform miracles in terms of your memorability and general allure.

If you need to work on your style, get a woman to help you. Don’t be afraid to ask the girl in the clothing store for suggestions on what not only looks good together, but looks good on you.

In addition to your style, you need to take care of your physical appearance. Women are attracted to men that look like they take care of themselves. Especially men who are muscular (but not muscle-bound). Muscle-bound guys are seen as living in the gym, and not having much time to date.

Be Adventurous:

Being adventurous means being a man who likes to do and see new things and isn’t afraid of change, the unexpected. Being adventurous is also about changing up the daily routine to keep the relationship interesting. Basically, don’t get in a rut.

Be Driven – Have A Job:

Women are attracted to men that have goals and are actively pursuing them. But drive isn’t always enough on its own. Ideally you’ll be driven in something that you’re passionate about. Quality women are infinitely more attracted to a man who is passionate about his work compared to a man who reluctantly went into law to please his parents and hates what he does. As much as most men resist this idea, when it comes to attracting a woman of character, drive beats dollars every time.

This should be a no-brainer, but women prefer to date men that have a job. Women don’t want to end up having to support an unemployed man. They also don’t want their own activities to be limited by someone else’s job status and potential financial limitations. In addition, having a job shows responsibility and your ability to make a commitment, especially if you’ve had the same job for a good length of time.

Chivalry / How You Treat Others:

When was the last time that you saw a man open the door for a woman? Chivalry is like a medieval concept that isn’t really practiced much anymore today. Husbands don’t even do this for their own wives anymore. But chivalry a universal language that women have always been attracted to and it will always stand the test of time. Women love to feel respected and cared for. Simple gestures like helping a woman carry her purse or groceries, pulling her chair for her, helping her take off her coat, or opening the door for her are sure ways to win her heart. Women rate it high enough that they get jealous/envious of other women when they see a man opening her car door.

Women are always watching to see how you treat others. You may be putting up a front to impress them, but how you treat others will show her the kind of man you really are. If you’re mean to others, you’ll eventually be mean to her.

Be Good With Kids:

There’s a reason why single dads are seen as so attractive to women. Every woman finds a man who is good with children to be incredibly attractive. This is a major sign that he’ll make a great father and life partner one day.

Men In Uniform:

Women have notoriously been attracted to police officers, fire fighters, and guys in the military. As the saying goes, women love a man in uniform. By why?

Think about the way men in uniform are viewed, and look at the list again:

  • Confident
  • Sense of Humor
  • Appearance Style
  • Adventurous
  • Driven
  • Chivalry
  • Good With Kids

You can clearly see where those positions give off that appearance. This doesn’t  mean you have to do one of those jobs to attract women. Just adapt those qualities.

Why Are They Attracted To Older Men:

This is called the “George Clooney effect,” here’s what it is in a nutshell: Basically, a 2010 study of 3,770 people revealed that women prefer older men. As women mature, they become more focused on whether or not a man can provide for them financially. Rather than being concerned with good looks, as women become more independent, they actually prefer men who can provide them with further stability and security. This can also be due to the assumption that younger men aren’t as financially responsible and stable, therefore making women prefer older men who would also be better suited as father figures and leaders.

So men, just because you start getting a little gray hair doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing.